Rita,
A DIY wedding reception is the way to go these days for both guests and the families of the bride and groom. You can save a lot of money. I love the idea of using lasagna or any pasta dish. Pasta dishes would be perfect for a fall or winter wedding when the air is cool and crisp or freezing and you want something hot and delicious.
Deli sandwiches are also a great idea for spring and summer. Serve them with chips, raw veggies, and berries or sliced melons and you have the perfect outdoor diy wedding reception meal!
Simple, inexpensive and guaranteed to please everyone.